Things Happen For A Reason...
Just some food for thoughts...
A friend once told me that things happen for a reason and we always get disappointed when things don't go the way we want them to. It may be something we want, someone we hoped to be with or maybe even that job that we were hoping for. Well all things certainly don't go the way its expected to, then you and i will not be called humans.. When things fail in your lives, we never use to see the good side of why it happen, why its happening or why it was meant to happen. Of course we'll all be emotionally taken aback, but we don't see failure in an objective way and that's what make us dwell in the past.
When something bad happens, we refuse to accept what has happen and move forward, yet we tend to brood over spilt milk and thus makes us go back to the past everytime we think about what happened. We don't let our minds focus on other new things which is why the mind and heart goes back to the past. Its because you are not letting your mind to move forward. Take a relationship for example, (this topic relates to most people very well haha) when the break-ups and heartaches happen we always sit and cry ourselves to sleep thinking why is this happening to me.. But we never really realise why is this happening.. Maybe its something that has had to happen to make us learn something out of this experience that we just had.. Maybe it was not the right person, or not the right time.. So many factors to why this happen and it all happens for a reason.. The people we meet- some become our friends, some are just passerbys.. I believe that everything happens for a reason and when they do let's just take a step back and think why it has happened. Objective thinking can really make you understand why things are happening..
Ok, i think this is a relatively sane topic i've written in a long long time...
Peace out..
